safety vs. growth

Most people have come into contact, at one point or another with the idea of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Roughly, he said that certain types of needs come first; for example physiological needs like food and water, and safety concerns need to be satisfied before one can focus on things like self-esteem, or even love. This morning I came across a blog talking about the elements involved in the very last, top state of the ‘pyramid’ of needs: self-actualization, and particularly got caught on this:

“Life is an ongoing process of choosing between safety (out of fear and a need for defense) and risk (for the sake of progress and growth). Make the growth choice a dozen times a day.”
~ Abraham Maslow (comments by Derek Sivers)

Derek Sivers has put together an excellent, simple summary of Maslow’s approach to ’self-actualizing’. I’ve copied it below as well, as I think it’s a great set of reminders.

Abraham Maslow’s 8 Ways to Self-Actualize

1. Experience things fully, vividly, selflessly. Throw yourself into the experiencing of something: concentrate on it fully, let it totally absorb you
2. Life is an ongoing process of choosing between safety (out of fear and need for defense) and risk (for the sake of progress and growth): Make the growth choice a dozen times a day.
3. Let the self emerge. Try to shut out the external clues as to what you should think, feel, say, and so on, and let your experience enable you to say what you truly feel.
4. When in doubt, be honest. If you look into yourself and are honest, you will also take responsibility. Taking responsibility is self-actualizing.
5. Listen to your own tastes. Be prepared to be unpopular.
6. Use your intelligence, work to do well the things you want to do, no matter how insignificant they seem to be.
7. Make peak experiencing more likely: get rid of illusions and false notions. Learn what you are good at and what your potentialities are not
8. Find out who you are, what you are, what you like and don’t like, what is good and what is bad for you, where you are going, what your mission is. Opening yourself up to yourself in this way means identifying defenses – and then finding the courage to give them up.